GraceNotes: Holding the Space for … Reflection

#160 — August 1, 2025

Shalom comes only to the inclusive, embracing community that excludes none.

— Walter Brueggeman

Greetings, Inspired Seekers!

Growing up in my birth religion, I was taught, somewhat dramatically, that there was only one religion, this was it and to even visit another church would send me straight to hell. Sound familiar?

Thankfully, I am no longer that child, although I love her for what she endured and for how she has grown. Ever since my days of exploration in seminary and my study of different faith traditions, I have come to believe that there are many paths to the same end and that the strength of our common humanity may be found in our common Divinity.

Collaboration, so deeply needed these days, serves the greater good, builds bridges and provides a platform of gracious gratitude from which to spring. Embracing the traditions of the world expands our thoughts, opens our hearts, heals the broken pieces and provides a way forward. It does not diminish one's chosen path; it helps us walk, hand-in-hand, with learned travel companions.

Our solidarity in spirituality may, in fact, strengthen our chosen faith and help make us better citizens of the world. Want unity? Reach out to a faith that makes you go hmmm… for those are the hands clasped in unity that might lead us into a different space. A space of grace, humble and welcoming and open rather than elitist, exclusionary and divisive. A space where all are welcomed through the grace of love.

Humanistic beliefs provide a deeper look at our humanity. The Sikhs welcome the stranger, especially through their gift of Langar. The Hindus teach of oneness and the Buddhists of compassion. Christianity can introduce us to The Cosmic Christ, and the Jews show us a path to unity through the teachings of The Torah. The Sufis share lessons through the beauty of poetry, and the Native Americans connect us all to the land of creation. These spiritual paths create a landscape worthy – and necessary – to explore and embrace.

As we move into the second half of the year, perhaps we can move away from the teachings of my youth (and maybe yours), teachings that focus upon separation, self-righteousness and self-importance. Perhaps, through love and understanding and a trusting in our Unitive spirituality, we really can reach TheSpaceForGrace. Happy travels!

Grace, Always Yours,
Reverend Deborah

Question of the Month: Will you explore at least two new traditions by the end of the year?


The Reverend Dr. Deborah Darlington is an Interfaith Minister and Chaplain who serves people of all traditions. She can be reached at GraceMatters@TheSpaceForGrace.com or at 215 260 1611.

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